Can we do this? I don't normally participate in these, but I really feel the need to do it ths week.
I flame butterflyroy for suggesting that because the OP (who is an MOB) has been aware that she had a daughter X many years ago that she should have been saving for her daughters wedding all these years and not have been surprised when the daughter expected her mom to pay for her PPD.
EDIT: Fogot about my final flame. I flame monkeysip for wanting to plan an after-party and have her guests drive "only a little bit drunk" instead of totally smashed.