I'm fully aware that there will be people who will not come if we don't invite their kids, and I'm okay with it.
What I'm struggling with picking an age cut-off...did anyone do something like that? No kids under 12, or 10 or whatever? I'm trying to decide. My FI has some 14-17 year old cousins that he's close with and they look up to him...but that being said, even if we do say no kids 10 and under, there will be some families who will have some kids included and not others. Most of the 12+ kids we want there.
How did things turn out for those who did it?