Hey everyone, I want to get some opinions on a semi destination wedding. I live in NYC and most of my family lives in Westchester. However, my fiance's family is a little spread out, about half in Westchester and half in Rhode Island. Also, his mom, aunt and my bridesmaids live in North Carolina. I would love to have our wedding in Rhode Island. I think it is so beautiful and classic there. However, I don't want my wedding to be a burden on anyone. The people from NC will be traveling regardless and they don't mind. But I don't want to be a burden for everyone in NY. What do you guys think? For all of the New Yorkers it would only be like a 2.5 hr drive. Also, I wasn't thinking of inviting children, but if it is sort of destination, should I invite children? Am I overreacting, or would it be a hassle for guests?