First Question:
Some members of my family have like 6-8 kids. Is it ok to put on SOME of the response cards "2 seats have been reserved in your honor" and not the rest?
Or should I keep it uniform, even if I plan to invite other family members kids? So some cards say 2 seats, some say 4, etc?
I would love to have all of the kids there but at $22/plate, and no special pricing for kids (even with the bar!) I just can't/dont want to really afford to invite them...
Second Question:
My guest list triples my fiances list, and each of our lists are mainly family, we each have 1 friend on there (outside of the wedding party)
Is this going to be odd? I can't think of any cuts on my side that wouldn't go unnoticed...he can't think of any additions to add to his...