Neither my fiance and I had a real church that we went to so when I knew a preacher that I thought would be a nice and interesting preacher to perform the ceremony, we went with him. Well, the last two sessions of the counseling (which took forever to plan) have been truly awkward and uncomfortable. Plus, I found out that he had asked my mother why he and I didn't just go get married. Now I've already had some issues with the ceremony (not the marriage but wanting to have a ceremony although my fiance and I are helping alot and alot has been planned through family business connections) so hearing another person who doesn't seem to support the wedding and he is supposed to be our preacher, like okay? So anyone have any ideas of what to do or have had a similar issue of not liking their preacher after they started counseling?