I am number 3 of 8 kids. ( 1 of 3 girls) Fi is 1 of 6 kids ( one of 2 boys) they are all expecting to be be part of the wedding party, I have had to already tell my friends I am not sure i can have them in the wedding due to pressure. can I just have 1 maid of honor and skip it to avoid hurt feelings? I do not want this to start problems.