FFF

MrsMack10612

I flame the girl on Moms & Maids (and anyone else) who thinks she has a FMIL problem because her FI won't stand up to his mother.  No, you have a FI problem.

KatWAG

I would like to flame the girl on HM who was complaining that she was only given 20k for her wedding and honeymoon. And she was livid that her FMIL wouldnt contribute. (really hoping it was MUD)

SlothGoals

BaysideBride's "rude" post made me stabby. Why are you deliberately trying to antagonize people?!

tlc35

I flame the girl who was upset that her FIL wouldn't pay for her honeymoon in Greece. Really, if you can't afford to go there and pay for it yourself, don't go there.

AddieCake

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:3e104c74-898b-4e95-b1be-9e559a15dd1d">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame the poster who wanted to invite her co-workers to the reception only by sending them a PDF that is similar to the invitation, but with different info.  I also flame the person that told her not to let the "etiquette police" get her down because it's her day and she can do what she wants.
Posted by LaSak87[/QUOTE]

<div>Oh, yes! This one was definitely a new one for me! </div>

Peledreamsofrain

I flame this entire week for being too difficult for me to effectively knot, leaving me with nothing to add to my favorite Friday thread. Unless that's against the rules... then I flame the rules .

GoodLuckBear14

I flame the B&G in the photo in this thread and anyone who thinks this is a cute idea:

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_what-some-bridesmaids-do-for-their-bride

(photo is not of any knottie that we know of)

GroomNeedsAdvice

Well, I'm a little biased, but I'll agree with the BaffledBride flame. Her post was just so weird and random.

GroomNeedsAdvice

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:8e813b2c-69d6-4c0a-b1fb-3012cfb60104">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Just saw how that thread ended. What are you going to do with your harem of internet followers? Procrastinate on TK? You evil genius.
Posted by Liatris2010[/QUOTE]

<div>I propose we initally rent a large, abandoned warehouse. We can expand if we must.</div>

PreDempsey

This one is pretty general but anyone who posts about anything, anywhere, without reading current posts and seeing that their concern has already been asked and addressed.

I'll ditto the girl who thinks that her wedding is SO special that a venue will let her use their space even though they've explicitly said no.. No amount of strong worded letter writing is going to change the fact that no one cares about your wedding as much as you and the people immediately involved.

Loopyseven

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:d1d372d1-c5d6-404d-a3bb-a826b9838f0e">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I also want to flame the FI who is insisting his bach party be ascending Mount Hood with the entire wedding party and SOs even though none of them want to go, can afford to go, or are experienced enough to make the trip. So selfish, so stupid.
Posted by Liatris2010[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>This was mine too.</div>

cookie0803

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:270ec845-3676-4059-91c1-f860787a085e">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]This one is pretty general but anyone who posts about anything, anywhere, without reading current posts and seeing that their concern has already been asked and addressed. <strong>I'll ditto the girl who thinks that her wedding is SO special that a venue will let her use their space even though they've explicitly said no.</strong>. No amount of strong worded letter writing is going to change the fact that no one cares about your wedding as much as you and the people immediately involved.
Posted by PreDempsey[/QUOTE]

<div>I did not read this post, but I'm embarrassed to admit I did something kind of similar. I was visiting a winery with my mom that is owned by some famly friends. I fell in love with the place, sent pictures to FI, he loved it, and I asked if they did weddings. They said no, because they had too many bridezilla experiences. I said something along the lines of, "aw, bummer, I understand."</div><div>
</div><div>They did offer it up to us without me ever mentioning it again, because they knew us, but we wouldn't be able to accomodate everyone comfortably, so we decided against it.</div>

AddieCake

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:898918d0-2efd-49f3-ad68-6b7c74bd6317">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I did not read this post, but I'm embarrassed to admit I did something kind of similar. I was visiting a winery with my mom that is owned by some famly friends. I fell in love with the place, sent pictures to FI, he loved it, and I asked if they did weddings. They said no, because they had too many bridezilla experiences. I said something along the lines of, "aw, bummer, I understand." They did offer it up to us without me ever mentioning it again, because they knew us, but we wouldn't be able to accomodate everyone comfortably, so we decided against it.
Posted by cookie0803[/QUOTE]

<div>Yeah, but you asked, they said no, you dropped it. She asked as a child, was told no, drafted a whiney letter as an adult to inquire again (even though their website clearly shows they don't do weddings in the space she wanted) with the reasoning that she wasn't sure how serious they were in their initail "no" or if they understood how important it was, and those of us who told her to give it up were basically quitters. </div>

AddieCake

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:b1823580-96cc-4a4a-9c3c-d22a0eea4407">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I didn't understand that one.  Was she trying to be funny???
Posted by TXKristan[/QUOTE]

<div>Same here. I left that alone b/c I didn't know if she was trying to be funny and it went awry, or if she was serious. That was odd. </div>

PreDempsey

<div align="left">In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:898918d0-2efd-49f3-ad68-6b7c74bd6317">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I did not read this post, but I'm embarrassed to admit I did something kind of similar. I was visiting a winery with my mom that is owned by some famly friends. I fell in love with the place, sent pictures to FI, he loved it, and I asked if they did weddings. They said no, because they had too many bridezilla experiences. I said something along the lines of, "aw, bummer, I understand." They did offer it up to us without me ever mentioning it again, because they knew us, but we wouldn't be able to accommodate everyone comfortably, so we decided against it.
Posted by cookie0803[/QUOTE]


At least you accepted it and were ready to move on.. This place doesn't sound like it's budging and this girl can't understand why and thinks they should make an exception because she's THAT important.
</div>

cookie0803

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:d92c3964-465f-4d11-b067-4af8fa712be0">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Yeah, but you asked, they said no, you dropped it. She asked as a child, was told no, drafted a whiney letter as an adult to inquire again (even though their website clearly shows they don't do weddings in the space she wanted) with the reasoning that she wasn't sure how serious they were in their initail "no" or if they understood how important it was, and those of us who told her to give it up were basically quitters. 
Posted by AddieL73[/QUOTE]

<div>Wow, yeah, that's a different situation. Just imagine how she'll react when she realizes nobody else cares about her wedding, either.</div>

hoffse

I have so many this week, and I've never done this before.

-Life insurance chick on registries.  WTF of COURSE you can't register for that.

-Mt. Hood groom for being selfish and putting his friends in danger

-GroomNeedsHelp's mom because now she's taking her crazies out on her daughter who needs support

-jcio9 on registering who is having a PPD and asks about registering for gifts... and then MrsBlack86 who I am pretty sure was jcio9's altar ego who only posted to defend her and tell the rest of us we were jealous?  And she got into it with me.  

-xcloudlovex for calling her FMIL selfish because she doesn't want to send the couple to Greece

....aaaaaand every person who can't use the search function.  After months of explaining why HM registries are tacky, I'm starting to get burnt out on it.

vanityink

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:898918d0-2efd-49f3-ad68-6b7c74bd6317">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I did not read this post, but I'm embarrassed to admit I did something kind of similar. I was visiting a winery with my mom that is owned by some famly friends. I fell in love with the place, sent pictures to FI, he loved it, and I asked if they did weddings. They said no, because they had too many bridezilla experiences. I said something along the lines of, "aw, bummer, I understand." They did offer it up to us without me ever mentioning it again, because they knew us, but we wouldn't be able to accomodate everyone comfortably, so we decided against it.
Posted by cookie0803[/QUOTE]

I would totally use that as a bridezilla barometer, if I was the venue, I have to say. Do they whine and b!tch when we say 'no' if so, not a chance in he!l. They say "bummer, but ok" we'll consider it.

TKzilla

I'm going to go ahead and add the BBonBoardBride. Baby themed wedding AND wanting to demote her friend because she is NOT pregnant...

Sierra524

That BaffledBride chick is completely insane.

peekaboo2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:5dec9129-8369-43bf-80b7-43e33f397ef4">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm going to go ahead and add the BBonBoardBride. Baby themed wedding AND wanting to demote her friend because she is NOT pregnant...
Posted by CourtaniaLynn[/QUOTE]

<div>Link please?</div>

vanityink

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:47c7def3-a618-423e-b0f9-8cc657baea9d">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Link please?
Posted by peekaboo2011[/QUOTE]

Top of the forum right now: <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_and-baby-makes-3">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_and-baby-makes-3</a>

kmbryant2413

I lost my mind about that. I'm so glad there is an 'edit' button.

peekaboo2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:c4685bb1-2c74-47ff-ab1a-0564f15be5b5">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Top of the forum right now: <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_and-baby-makes-3">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_and-baby-makes-3</a>
Posted by jessicadall[/QUOTE]

<div>I think I blocked that out for a reason.  What in the everloving name of...you know, there really isn't a sentiment for that level of crazyperson.</div>

PreDempsey

Who saw that movie on lifetime about those little girls in high-school that made a pact to all get pregnant? That girl is a version of that movie but in adult form. I bet they're having a dry reception too because you can't drink when you're knocked up and well that's what this day is about.

harper0813

I just want to say THANK YOU to everyone who has flamed my FI for wanting the Mt Hood bach party so badly. He is driving me nuts. This weekend we'll be stuck in the car for several hours while driving to claim our puppy and I'm going to have a conversation with him then... anyway, I flame him too. And I also flame any bride who comes on here and tries to justify B lists, and I unflame the ones that come to their senses.

Sierra524

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:ed4871ee-eb21-4839-91d4-4faee8ea62aa">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]oh sweet baby Jesus,  BBonBoardBride is actually serious.
Posted by TXKristan[/QUOTE]

Shes insane as well. WTF is she thinking?!

cookie0803

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:1e92c652-0dbd-4fa0-b9c4-79e795da52f9">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Who saw that movie on lifetime about those little girls in high-school that made a pact to all get pregnant? That girl is a version of that movie but in adult form. I bet they're having a dry reception too because you can't drink when you're knocked up and well that's what this day is about.
Posted by PreDempsey[/QUOTE]

<div>Yes! I wonder if her centerpieces will be diaper cakes?</div>

[Deleted User]

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:2aa5ea26-1c92-484e-8f2f-6463ea5c7602">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Yes! I wonder if her centerpieces will be diaper cakes?
Posted by cookie0803[/QUOTE]

Of course not! Those are the things that people have to buy for her!

Sierra524

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-106?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:57066f86-c21f-4c3a-9fb7-e5754b0f2611Post:2aa5ea26-1c92-484e-8f2f-6463ea5c7602">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Yes! I wonder if her centerpieces will be diaper cakes?
Posted by cookie0803[/QUOTE]

Maybe she will have her guest drink out of bottles?