WWYT?

lyndausvi

Couple has a DW with 7 guests.   After the ceremony there is a 2 hour open bar with a sushi roller and desert bar.   Then the bride and groom goes and has a dinner on the beach leaving the guests  (dinner on the beach is at the resort where everyone is staying).

Does anyone else thinks that is a little rude of the B&G?  I mean, sure they had a reception. But if people are traveling to your DW, spending big $$$$ and it's only 7 other people don't you think they should get more than just 2 hours with you?

emilyinchile

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Yes.

golden1215

Are the 7 guests going to be at the destination for awhile?  I mean, if I spent 5 days there and tons of time w/ the B&G I wouldnt care about then leaving after a 2 hour reception for some alone time.

My bf got married in mexico and after dinner they retired for the night and everyone else went to the dancing part without them. 

leah2b

I think its very rude - if people are travelling and spending extra cash for a DW, you owe them more than cake and sushi - give them some dinner.  To then go off and have dinner by yourself is very cheap and inconsiderate. I bet they did that becuase they just didn't want to spend the money for their guests.