My husband and I traveled roughly 550mi back in early October to attend a wedding of a friend of his from high school. Aside from the cash bar it was a nice event. We put a card with a monetary gift in the cardbox.
Fast forward four months and we hadn't received a thank you. I put on my judgy pants for a minute and then moved on.
And then we just got something in the mailbox.
it was a big postcard type deal with a plain, white, address label on the back.
On the front was their wedding picture and a typed note thanking everyone for coming and for our gift which would be great for their home.
Completely generic. Aside from the address label our names were nowhere on it. I'm not even sure they hand signed it.
They should have just saved themselves the money.