Hey ladies- I'm pretty new but just needed to vent a little. FI and I went to a wedding in Feb 2011 and still haven't gotten a thank you card. It was for a very close family friend of FI's family and in fact no one in the family got one yet. My FMIL asked the MOG if they sent them out yet just to make sure they didn't get lost in the mail or something and was told that etiquette was they had a year and have just been so busy they didn't have time to write them yet! REALLY?!?! thanks for listening