FI ran into an old friend at our local pub the other night and they got to talking and he invited him to our wedding, which is fine. He then asked if he could bring his girlfriend, FI said sure no problem, only it is a bit of a problem, bc as they continued talking he realized that the girlfriend is an ex drug addict who I was acquainted with prior to her addiction issues, who I stopped talking to bc of that and bc she stole an entire bag of Elizabeth Arden makeup from me. I obviously do not want her at our wedding.
FI claims he talked about her past issues with his friend who assured him that she has 100% changed, and that she was messed up with the wrong crowd and now she is in a much better place. I'm not so sure, this was only a little over a yr ago when she was really messed up and stole from me. FI is a little more accepting of this person coming, he alwasys tends to give ppl the benefit of the doubt (and gets screwed over a lot bc of it), he thinks she will behave but I am not so sure and don't really want to be worrying about her stealing or getting trashed. I'm not sure she will even show up. I was debating sending a polite email to his friend saying he is welcome to come but to please leave her at home, and give him a little background. At the same time I don't want to start a big blowup so I'm pretty torn about what to do.
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