So... I picked out 4 wonderful ladies to be my BMs. He picked 6 guys to be GM. Two got shipped to Afghanistan with the Army. One dropped out because he "refused to buy a suit he'd wear once". Okay, so he was down to three. One of those three is also DJing for us. Then two nights ago (we're about a month out), one had to drop out because his grandmother just got very ill and they don't think she'll pull out of this. He's down to two. Now, I don't much care about lopsided-ness. However, he wanted it to be a little more even than 4-2. One of my BMs is very close to both of us and he was hoping she could stand on his side on the day of the wedding. Would it be okay to ask her to do this?