Hey guys, I had my wedding yesterday and we just finished opening and reading all the cards. It seems like there are some cards missing from a significant number of notable guests (e.g. father of the bride), and I'm concerned they were left somewhere rather than just not written in the first place. I want to ask about the cards because if they ARE missing, we could try to track them down. It's not at all that I'm offended or wanting more gifts (although if there is a cash gift in the card, that is an additional concern if the card is missing). I realize people can overlook seemingly obvious things when they are preoccupied with all the other stuff going on, so I wouldn't be angry with anyone who didn't give me a card. I'm trying to figure out a way I can ask someone if they got us a card without making them feel embarrassed if they actually didn't.