Good Morning!
Would it be ok to have a Luau (and accept donations towards the honeymoon- only if someone wanted to give) instead of a Bridal shower? I know that it is just wrong to ask anyone for money and we would NEVER do that. We have the money to pay for our wedding but thought that if someone wanted to give a gift we would like donations towards the honeymoon. This is the second wedding for both the FH and me and we already live together in a house that has way too much stuff in it. I know that my bridesmaid wants to throw us a party (weather it is a shower or a luau). How do we go about doing this? Is is ok to do this? I would appriciate any and all opinions! TIA!