Some of you may remember a few months ago when I posted about FBIL... he and FI are (still) not talking to each other because of an argument and at the time I was feeling thrown in the middle. To top it off, FBIL suddenly & unexpectedly announced an engagement to his GF. And I just had a weird feeling about the entire situation.
Well the whole thing died down, I washed my hands of it and decided it was not my business to try to patch things up between FI and FBIL.
Their wedding is tomorrow.... we never did get an invite although I wasn't really expecting one. I did send them an invite to our wedding because I refuse to be so petty as to not invite his own brother. They haven't responded yet.
So my question is... I feel like we should send a gift or at least some kind of acknowledgement... but FI doesn't even want to address it. At all. Should I send them something anyway? Maybe just an email / FB "congrats"? Or continue to stay out of it?