My question is whether or not you should be paying for another plate at your wedding for the photographer?
I feel that, because I am paying my photographer by the hour, and my reception is the same price a plate as it is for her price an hour that something has to give. What did you do? Did your photographer 'stop the clock' while they ate? Did they bring their own food? Did they request a seat? Where did you seat them?
I am willing to purchase another plate for the photographer, I'm just not sure about what the etiquette is here.