I have quite a few out-of-town relatives coming in for my wedding. Should they be invited to my bridal shower, too? I know that they won't be able to travel over 800 miles twice in a little more than two months time. Some of them are on very limited budgets and I don't want to appear as if I am inviting them to the shower only to get a gift. I also don't want them to have hurt feelings if they are not invited.