How did your venue handle carding at the bar? The reason why I ask is because at my friend's wedding, the put x's on the hands of the people they carded and it think that looks horribly "clubby" at a wedding, not to mention I don't enjoy scrubbing permanent marker off my hands. If my venue insists on marking the people who are questionably 21, would you as a guest appreciate one of those annoying bracelets more?