I have to vent before my head explodes.

erin7264

What a cow. I know it's no consolation, but at least he found out before marrying her. My poor FI had a girl do the same thing to him years ago when he was deployed  and that sh!t leaves permanent scars. She should be shamed into oblivion. I hope your parents are dumping her stuff in the gutter! (Or, at least donating it to a homeless/womens shelter)

mari0225

Ugh what a witch! And to be mooching off your parents while cheating! Gah this just makes me furious for you and your brother!

frantastic12

Ugh, that's awful!  What a terrible person.  Unfortunately, shiit like that happens way too often.  When he was in the military, my brother knew quite a few guys that ended up in situations similar to your brother's. 

Bubbalub

What a sack of shiit. I'm so sorry Whit. Your brother deserves so much better than that. Am I to assume your mom is kicking her lying ass out of her house?

MattsPenguin

Whit - that is DISPICABLE!  The only comfort that I can provide is that at least they are not married.  Is your brother really young?  Many of my brother's friends (all enlisted Marines) got married very early and are now divorced or divorcing.

ETA:  HOORAY FOR YOUR BROTHER BEING BACK IN THE STATES!  I know how much that means to you and your family.  Thank him for me.

dawnie204

I'm really sorry to hear this.  I'm sad to say that it happens often.  While my brother was in the milatary, he said this kind of thing happened to a bunch of his friends.  It makes me so angry!  I hope he gets through this ok.

[Deleted User]

What a piece of shiit. I'm glad your brother found out the truth about her before it's too late, though.

marryingafootballcoach

OMG.  What a complete bitch!  So sorry!

whitsy

He's 22.

MattsPenguin

So not a total baby.  She's an awful person anyway.  I agree with whomever said that your mom should put all of her stuff in the yard.  Flames could be involved for dramatic effect.

[Deleted User]

What a biitch.  Throw her stuff on the lawn with a sign saying "Free shiit.  Please take it asap.  Just have it tested for crabs before you do, as the former owner was a hoebag."

whitsy

Oh. Oh. SHE JUST POSTED ON FACEBOOK HOW HAPPY SHE IS. I'm not sure I can resist saying something. I need to though. I don't need to say something.

Megbo2012

Whit, was this a surprise to you? Did you like her? 

FutureGray

[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I have to vent before my head explodes. : Oh no. SHE left HIM. He didn't even get the satisfaction of telling her he's done.
Posted by whitsy[/QUOTE]

Holy. Cow.

I just hope karma is as big a bitch as this girl has been. Sorry this is happening Whit. At least, as PP have said, your bro wasn't married to her. I also volunteer to help if people are going to go break her kneecaps. Cheaters piss me off.

jennamarie10

wait, was she still planning on going on the vacation with him even after telling him she's leaving him?

Birdie1483

Couldn't the hosebeast have given him at least a day to be happy about being home and alive??

Meegles4

I haven't even read all the responses, but damn Whit. I'm really sorry. How shitty.

ETA: OK, now that I read it all...how the heck does she justify being all lovey on FB with full intentions to leave him?! And then get money from him/your parents for their vacay when she knows she's going to leave him before the vacay even happens. Girl's crazy. She better be cutting that check right back to your bro.

midgetthemighty

You need to unfriend her. Like right meow.

ETA - I seem to be recalling that they share a FB though - not sure how that should go down.

frantastic12

Suggest to your brother to change the password to their shared FB. 

(If she hasn't done that already)

ETA: clarity

SarahPLiz

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_i-have-to-vent-before-my-head-explodes?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:71d556e6-cd2d-4e40-82be-b7da6df1733dPost:665ac83a-9ecb-422b-88b5-5f5df59a7daa">Re: I have to vent before my head explodes.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I have to vent before my head explodes. : Yeah, I just wish we could be with him during this time. It gives my mom a few days to clean her stuff out of his room, because did I mention she's been living with my parents? Yeah. Mooching off my parents and seeing another guy.
Posted by whitsy[/QUOTE]
I think your mom should post a pic of all her stuff on the curb to her FB page, and not say another word. 

lyndausvi

I would love to see whit tell off this bitch on her FB feed. I know she won't, but it would be good reading.

Birdie1483

Do you have her email address? Lets send her porn.

Gabrielle76

Sometimes people cheat and you think "that's not nice..." and sometimes people cheat and you think "That b!tch needs to get hit by a car". 

This falls into the second category. I'm so sorry!

baystateapple

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_i-have-to-vent-before-my-head-explodes?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:71d556e6-cd2d-4e40-82be-b7da6df1733dPost:9f098c84-c625-4319-ba7e-230e5f102ff9">Re: I have to vent before my head explodes.</a>:
[QUOTE]Oh. Oh. SHE JUST POSTED ON FACEBOOK HOW HAPPY SHE IS. I'm not sure I can resist saying something. I need to though. I don't need to say something.
Posted by whitsy[/QUOTE]
What an unspeakable twat.

I'd post what you want to say, then block her ass.

mica178

Yeah, I'd unfriend her before you say something that she deserves but you'd regret.

erin7264

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_i-have-to-vent-before-my-head-explodes?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:71d556e6-cd2d-4e40-82be-b7da6df1733dPost:9f098c84-c625-4319-ba7e-230e5f102ff9">Re: I have to vent before my head explodes.</a>:
[QUOTE]Oh. Oh. SHE JUST POSTED ON FACEBOOK HOW HAPPY SHE IS. I'm not sure I can resist saying something. I need to though. I don't need to say something.
Posted by whitsy[/QUOTE]

You are a much better person than me.

I would be all over that, like yesterday. And I'd be clever, too.

maratea

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_i-have-to-vent-before-my-head-explodes?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:71d556e6-cd2d-4e40-82be-b7da6df1733dPost:9f098c84-c625-4319-ba7e-230e5f102ff9">Re: I have to vent before my head explodes.</a>:
[QUOTE]Oh. Oh. SHE JUST POSTED ON FACEBOOK HOW HAPPY SHE IS. I'm not sure I can resist saying something. I need to though. I don't need to say something.
Posted by whitsy[/QUOTE]
If you're going to unfriend her, might as well go out in a blaze of glory. :) I'd probably post something along the lines of "So happy now that your dirty vag has been set free to fuuck whatever it wants without feeling guilty??"

But I'm vindictive and mean.

Megbo2012

FutureGray, loving your hair piece and dress...basically your whole sig.

Whit, part of me thinks I would be a total betch and then part of me thinks I would just say nothing and "be the bigger person" that's tough

sarabellam

Whit, I would totally wish her "everything she so richly deserves in this lifetime." But I'm a passive-aggresive bitch like that.

jemmini6

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_i-have-to-vent-before-my-head-explodes?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:71d556e6-cd2d-4e40-82be-b7da6df1733dPost:5bb4d8cb-50bf-4079-88d6-c0ea9296cb46">Re: I have to vent before my head explodes.</a>:
[QUOTE]Sometimes people cheat and you think "that's not nice..." and sometimes people cheat and you think "That b!tch needs to get hit by a car".  This falls into the second category. I'm so sorry!
Posted by Gabrielle76[/QUOTE]

Generally, ALL cheating falls into the second category.  Hers just falls into the, "lets back the car up and double tap that bitch" one too.