Regarding an invitation I received

katiewhompus

The other day I received a wedding invitation from one of my old coworker buddies. We had been good friends for 3 years working together, she came to my wedding, blah de blah.

The rsvp card says
M ____________________-
Accepts with pleasure / declines with regret

Now...she obviously knows that Scott and I are married, and the rsvp return address is "The Dhslastname family", so is it safe to assume if I call to confirm that we are both invited she won't be super surprised when I say "Dh is invited too right"?

Yes the original invite would tell me, but Dh threw that away before I could get any info off of it.

kkchisholm

It's to the both of you.

Simply Fated

Yes, if you guys are married, then it is safe to assume he is invited, too. I would go ahead and make that call. If she sounds surprised by your question, then that is her faux pas, not yours.

kkchisholm

I wouldn't even call. What else would family mean?

saxy414

If the address says "family", I would think you're safe even without a call--though I would personally give her a call and slip it into conversation somewhere.  And my FI is the guy who throws away invitations before I get to look at them, too. 

katiewhompus

Ok good. I thought so and she is the quite possibly the sweetest, best soul I've ever met so I didn't want to give her a heart attack. I'm reminded of all the "OMG I thought I made it clear that only X was invited by only putting in one rsvp card! The nerve!" type posts.

CALEO

 I've seen a lot of RSVP cards with only one line

M_________________


You just put


Mr. and Mrs. Dhlastname

It is DHlast name family (thats you two for sure!)

Krysti21

Yep, I asked this same question when I receieved a similar invitation a while ago. I don't know why they only put one line. That's what confused me too. It's definitely to you both.

tenofcups4me

I wouldn't even call to ask. There's no reason to believe that he's not invited.

quotequeen

There's usually only one RSVP card, and you just write all the names on the one line.  This is extremely common.  I would not worry about it in the slightest.