I have just began to search for ideas for my upcoming wedding in August 2010. The cost is going to be more that I ever wanted to spend because I have a huge family and numerous friends, and currently paying for two childen at attend college. Just inviting my family alone would be very expensive. I thought we would go to city hall and plan a huge BBQ in the park, so that all my family & friends would be able to attend and wish us blessings. Does that sound cheap!!