My parents have been divorced for a long time but generally get along. My father has paid for my entire wedding, but my mother has planned my entire wedding as well as raise me my entire life. My parents were fine sitting next to eachother on the front row during the ceremony. Now my father has decided he wants to bring a date, whom I've met 3 times over the past six months, and have her sit on the front row second seat in. My mother thinks she should at the very least sit on the other side of my stepfather whom has been in my life for 15 years. I, however, think she should not be seated at all in any of the front three rows designated for family because she isn't family. What to do???