I am feeling strange right now because we are inviting a bunch of my parents' cousins who I do not know and neither do my parents really, but it is tradition that all the cousins go to each other's weddings. And showers too! I have to have a shower that will pretty much consist of my immediate family and all these people I don't know. Do I need to worry about looking "gift-grabby" if it's just what we do in my family? I would just as soon not invite them, but my parents insist. Is there any way to make it look like less of a gift-grab? I would love to beg everyone on the invitations to not even bring gifts, but I know that's not proper. Am I over-thinking things? Thanks!