Future Hub's family friend got married. The invitation was sent to him "and guest." No complaints there. But I signed the guestbook with my name, bought her gift, signed the card with my name too.
The thank you card had only his name on it. He said it's NBD but I think it is totally rude since she had my name. I write in all caps too so penmanship isn't a problem.
BTW that was the rudest TY card I've ever seen. It said "Thanks for the crockpot and cookbook. What are you trying to say? That I need to cook more?!" He says she's just tacky all the way around.
Now that I'm planning my own wedding, I'm reflecting on things that have been mental thumbs up/thumbs down with others. I can't imagine ever doing that.
(Sidenote: I don't think that you have to invite someone to your wedding just because they invited you to theirs. He isn't friends with her but their parents all went to HS together. I'd prefer not to include her, and just invite her parents.)