I judge

kikibaby

People who sneeze in public places without covering their mouths.

The parents of the kids who play unsupervised at a pond by our house- what if they fall in?

AliandDan2010

I judge parents who take there children on vacation and then leave them with the babysitting service at our Inn for 12 hour stretches of the day.

damaless

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:84801849-8f2c-4d9c-87b2-9a8207f65487Post:760918dd-af80-4548-9dcf-c47e83c9ec29">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : Oh, because your 71 posts make you an expert on what goes on here?
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]

<div>I don't need ten thousand posts to know that a lot of women here are really harsh and judgmental over little things. :P  I don't even really care all that much, but this environment is super hostile unless you've been here forever (and sometimes even then, it seems).  And Dani, sorry for not listing all the names in my post, but I think I'd hit the character limit.</div><div>
</div><div>But really? Judging Whit over her marriage situation after everyone leaps to say how supportive they are of her and whatever decision she makes?  So what if she decided she wants to try being happily married, give it a bit more of a chance?  Maybe her husband is acting more reasonable.  Maybe she's just trying to cope with a nasty situation by looking back at more positive times.  Who knows?</div>

akhensley81

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[QUOTE]I judge people who come in the office for a closing on their 4th mortgage but have the latest cellphone.
Posted by shellydiane820[/QUOTE]

This!

Those same people come in to my office when their unemployment runs out and beg me for an $8.00/hour job while texting their friends on said cell phones.

lharri12

I totally judge the content of shopping carts.  Yesterday at the store I saw a guy with two young children, and his cart contained three 2-liter bottles of soda, a bag of Doritos, and beer.  I judged.

ohwhynot

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:84801849-8f2c-4d9c-87b2-9a8207f65487Post:ccd01219-99a0-489c-8baf-f0849bedaf1d">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]Kiki, yours reminded me of the Mom from the pre-school I work at. She leaves her infant in the car every day when she goes inside to pick up her other child. I'm not a Mom, but that can't be a good idea.
Posted by jasmineh7777[/QUOTE]

Eh, that one doesn't seem like a big deal to me.  The parking lot of the daycare is probably the safest place on earth and if she's in and out, it's no different from leaving the baby in one room while she's in another.  Unless it's hot enough out for the car to heat up (which it will be soon), it makes no difference to the baby and is a lot easier on the mother.  I'd cut some slack on that one. 

JessAndTrav

OMG, I hate seeing anything but milk, water or juice (and barely that) out of a bottle.

Even with juice, you know it's probably something that's not natural but full of sugar and other junk.

Nebb

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:84801849-8f2c-4d9c-87b2-9a8207f65487Post:57b16ab6-fc80-4097-bd1c-eb8000ad12fe">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]Whit for considering annulment last week and then posting "Happily Married Pics" on FB last night.
Posted by mandysmear[/QUOTE]

I love whit, but im super confused by that. I still hate her husband and his stupid mustache. I know the inner workings of a relationship are unknown to anyone but them, but I wouldnt be able to get over that kind of disrespect. I want to kidnap her and make her become canadian.

kikibaby

I judge people who don't like the posters on the boards but continue to hang around.

Lyss5782

I judge people who are super-judgey about how other people spend their money.

(This is not in reference to the grocery comment above, just in general.  For example, someone might post a pic saying, "do you like this dress?" and there are 9 bazillion comments regarding how ridiculously expensive it is.)

danieliza1127

damaless, it's okay, I just assumed you were referencing Mandy so wasn't sure why you didn't just go ahead and say so.  It was pretty obvious. 

Unfortunately for Whit, when you air your serious problems on a public message board, you're just going to have to deal with the consequences of people having opinions on it and judgements about what you should and shouldn't do.  Whit has been on this board a LONG time and she knows that's how it goes, and she knew that was the chance she took when she posted it here for everyone to see. 

missy68

OWN, I can totally get on the snopes train. Totally.

I judge the lady who has been looking at the hydrangeas that have been on my desk for well over a month and asked me how I kept them looking so pretty. Ummm, they are silk, moron. Hydrangeas won't really last overnight, unless you do some serious doctoring.

mandysmear

Yeah cause things change drastically overnight.

I think it's great she's working on things.  I am not an advocate of divorce.  I am not against it, but I am not ALL for it either.   I judged the album.  Mostly because I hope to god she's not trying to make us think that because they had a good night together everything is magically okay. 

Every marriage has issues, and no one's is perfect.  And I know that things don't magically get better in 1 week over minor issues, so why the hell would hers be any better when there are MAJOR issues. 

georgia_bride09

[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : I don't need ten thousand posts to know that a lot of women here are really harsh and judgmental over little things. :P  I don't even really care all that much, but this environment is super hostile unless you've been here forever (and sometimes even then, it seems).  And Dani, sorry for not listing all the names in my post, but I think I'd hit the character limit. But really? Judging Whit over her marriage situation after everyone leaps to say how supportive they are of her and whatever decision she makes?  So what if she decided she wants to try being happily married, give it a bit more of a chance?  Maybe her husband is acting more reasonable.  Maybe she's just trying to cope with a nasty situation by looking back at more positive times.  Who knows?
Posted by damaless[/QUOTE]

I judge dlameass for judging people for judging in an "I Judge" thread.

jasmineh7777

OWN- Like I said, I'm not a mom, but it seems unsafe. She doesn't lock the doors, and she also doesn't hold her pre-schoolers hand in the busy parking lot. If I was a Mom, I'd be annoyingly over protective.

tenofcups4me

I judge people who make a "statement" by permanently tattooing their bodies and then can't seem to understand that people will respond to that statement. You want the world to see something? Then deal with the fact that the world is going to respond to what they see.

Moneypenny424

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:84801849-8f2c-4d9c-87b2-9a8207f65487Post:57b16ab6-fc80-4097-bd1c-eb8000ad12fe">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]Whit for considering annulment last week and then posting "Happily Married Pics" on FB last night.
Posted by mandysmear[/QUOTE]

I have to agree with this.  I did a double (or triple take), I was so confused.

Nebb

Just look at jessjo - imo the way her H was nothing like Whits bullriding husbands ultimatum... and she dealt with judgement for months over her husband, her marriage, and most decisions she made. It just comes with the territory - if you divulge personal information like that, people will bring it up or ask about it or question your decisions.

BecW2be

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:84801849-8f2c-4d9c-87b2-9a8207f65487Post:106311e6-eb68-4f6a-b835-a65a9073650f">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]I judge people who don't like the posters on the boards but continue to hang around.
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]

You forgot the "*cough*" at the end of that.

Moneypenny424

I agree with Mandy, no one is saying they aren't happy if she and her husband are working things out.  I just don't see how one goes from "annulment" to "happy" in 2 days. 

I do hope they work things out and that her husband turns his sh*t around.  She's a sweetheart.

damaless

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:84801849-8f2c-4d9c-87b2-9a8207f65487Post:106311e6-eb68-4f6a-b835-a65a9073650f">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]I judge people who don't like the posters on the boards but continue to hang around.
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]

<div>Haha, speaking of not just calling out who you mean to call out...</div><div>
</div><div>I stick around because for the moment it's more entertaining than unpleasant, and sometimes the information is useful.  And it's not like every single person is like that.</div><div>
</div><div>And thanks for the warning, JessAndTrav, but I'm actually not all that intimidated by the idea of a bunch of girls on the internet getting mad at me.  I don't think I'm violating any posting rules by not desperately trying to be liked (in fact, I recall another girl getting judged or maybe even getting her own thread over people thinking she was trying TOO hard to be liked).</div><div>
</div><div>Anyway, to keep this on topic, I judge my ISP tech support for giving up and sending a tech (a week from now!) after their suggestion of me unplugging the modem and plugging it back in didn't fix the problem.</div>

Moneypenny424

i judge the lady at physical therapy this morning who said no fewer than 10 times in 30 min. that her daughter goes to Georgetown.  I'm not saying she shouldn't be proud, but come on, it isn't like your daughter figured out cold fusion or something.

JessAndTrav

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[QUOTE]I judge dlameass for judging people for judging in an "I Judge" thread.
Posted by georgia_bride09[/QUOTE]

This reminds me of the episode of Friends when everyone finds out about Chandler and Monica, and Pheobe and Rachel say, "They don't know that we know they know we know."

andyandhillary

I judge the fb group about how tattoos should be acceptable in the world place because it's just like jewelry.  Right.  Most offices won't let you wear ridiculous jewlery either.  It's about looking professional. 

debjwes

i'm jumping in...

I judge the movers outside. The truck has been running since 10am and it's 1pm now...Do you need the truck to run to load things in? 

allisong23

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : Whoa.  What the holy . . . where did you see that?
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

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TurtlesAllTheWayDown

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : I love whit, but im super confused by that. <strong>I still hate her husband and his stupid mustache.</strong> I know the inner workings of a relationship are unknown to anyone but them, but I wouldnt be able to get over that kind of disrespect. I want to kidnap her and make her become canadian.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

Glad I'm not alone!

JessAndTrav

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:84801849-8f2c-4d9c-87b2-9a8207f65487Post:72be3bc8-9a5a-4f37-8cd1-ab5915b5756c">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]And thanks for the warning, JessAndTrav, but I'm actually not all that intimidated by the idea of a bunch of girls on the internet getting mad at me.
Posted by damaless[/QUOTE]

It wasn't really much of a warning, but whatever.

danieliza1127

My last comment on the Whit thing, if she is happy now and they're trying to work things out, she needs to post that here too.  Otherwise everyone is going to keep hating him and judging him, and they might anyway, but if you share the bad stuff you need to share the good stuff too otherwise everyone has a warped view of what's going on. 

karbar42

I judge the parents who took their kids on a steep rocky hike, and let them wear flip flops.  Really, you are surprised she fell?

jasmineh7777

I judge Jess for all of her cryptic warnings.