it's been a long time but this is still my go to place for some outside perspective.
After my wedding I posted my vendor reviews which I think were fair and honest and included a mediocre review of one vendor. I never really told my vendor about my issues. Today said vendor e-mails me and says they saw my review online and wished I would have talked to them about it first. (That was the entire e-mail, one line, no greeting no signature.)
Am I a jerk? Should I have given this vendor a heads up? There was nothing that could have been done about the disappointment and I felt that other brides should know. I feel like a jerk. I also feel like I owe the vendor an explanation....do I???