I recently made a monogram for our wedding with mine and my future husband's name, our wedding date, and his last name initial behind it. I LOVE the monogram and designed an invite that I LOVE that I'd like to incorparate the logo on. I know I can use this monogram anywhere I want after the wedding, but it's been brought to my attention that using your future last initial before the actual wedding is bad etiquette. How do you all feel about this? Is it okay to use it anyway or is this one of the etiquette rules that should be followed?