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I get a FB comment from the same girl asking for her wedding invite. I've told her several times that I don't have any room left and she still keeps on. We went to church together about 6 years ago and she has a few issues (not sure exactly what is wrong with her) and so I don't want to be mean but that the same time it's getting annoying.

Any advice?
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Re: Every single day

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    Just ignore it?
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    unfriend her?
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    mwhitson14mwhitson14 member
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    edited February 2010
    I feel bad ignoring her :(

    She would definitely refriend, she comments on everything I do. She'd probably notice.
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    I think ignoring it is all you can do.
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    Yeah, I don't think that I'd reply.
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    I just saw the comment. What an awkward thing to... tell you.
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    scoetto, she tells me that all the time. Check out some other statuses, you'll see her saying the same thing.
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    Maybe just say something like, "I'm really sorry, but we're keeping our wedding really small and only including family and a few close friends. I wish we were able to invite more people, but we just can't" and leave it at that. If she continues, there's not much else you can do but repeat yourself or ignore it.
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    She's not ASKING you for an invite today. She's telling you she'd like one. I'd just ignore it. That's what I did.
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    Just unfriend her Whit.  She'd notice, yes, but... do you care?  Really?  If she'd refriend, make it so she has to be approved and just ignore it.
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    Jill, she can't say that. Everybody in Whit's town is invited to this wedding. Except for the friend who wants an invite.

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    I would personally tell her to fuuck off already and stop being so pathetic, but thats me. You should make it so she your wall or comment on anything on your profile.
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    Amoro, I do care. I see her dad every day at the library and he'd definitely make a comment about it. He thinks anything that happens to his daughter is because of her disability (what he says, and I don't even know what it is), so he'd make me feel incredibly guilty.
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    Ignore; de-friend, and if she re-friends, don't approve or reject, just ignore it.
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    Miss Manners says any wedding is small to those not invited.  So I think Jill's answer is a good one.  After that, you just have to ignore it.  Unfortunately, I sense I'll be dealing with the same issue (a crazy person wanting an invite they're not going to get).
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    It's true, even random old church friends from the same church are invited. But I literally haven't seen her in years, so I didn't invite her. Well let me say, my parents didn't invite her. They crossed the church line, even though I didn't want to :(
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    Yeah, you can set your status so that she can't see them..I forgot about that.
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    I'll just keep ignoring her. I keep waiting on her dad to say something about giving her an invite but he hasn't yet. It's so awkward!
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    Neckie, if you haven't seen her in years, I don't understand why she expects an invite. And I thought you lived in a small town. How haven't you seen her? Is she on the farm my friend was talking about?? ;)
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    Yes, thanks for the reminder about hiding my statuses. Totally just did that.
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    I feel mean with my last comment, but seriously you should make it so she just cant comment or see your stuff. You dont have to defriend her just limit her ability to stalk you.
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    Nebb, no worries :) I'm not feeling real nice today either.
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    Hmm I just typed this but don't see it...

    Could you try "our venue already has the headcount and doesn't allow changes this close to the wedding"?
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    Oh katie that's a good one.
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    Wow...I just went and looked at your wall and that's just creepy.  Definitely don't let her see your statuses.
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    Yeah, Kate's advice is good.
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    Sco, I'm sure I've ran into her at Applebee's or something :D
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_single-day?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:8b05bd0b-7eda-454a-a8df-89fd583236c0Post:601c37e1-f003-4137-831a-c0138db17d0f">Re: Every single day</a>:
    [QUOTE]Sco, I'm sure I've ran into her at Applebee's or something :D
    Posted by mwhitson14[/QUOTE]
    HA! <3
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    I'm the lone ranger here, but I'd probably just invite her.  She really wants to go and it's a small town, plus you mentioned someone being disabled.  Maybe I'm a pushover, but what's one more when it obviously means this much to her?  I think you'll feel good about yourself if you invite her :)
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    I just wouldn't comment about your wedding anymore on Facebook.

    Or really, I'd just invite her. If EVERYONE ELSE in the town is invited and you're good enough friends with her to be facebook friends, I'd probably just suck it up. Why would you invite EVERYONE and not her? I must be missing something...
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