Ok so here is my problem...I am a bridesmaid in a wedding, one of six, two of the other bridesmaids are the grooms sister and brothers wife aka. sister in law. These two females have been a nightmare to deal with the entire wedding process. Name it they did it - derail surprise bridal shower, useless at said bridal shower,consistently comments negatively on topics brought up w/o alternate ideas, caused a family fight at engagement party, ruined brides dinner at bachlorette, ruined brides comedy show experience at bachlorette and the list can go on and on. So here we are in the final weeks before the Dec. wedding and I get a knot in my stomach every time I think about what kind of hyjinx these females will pull on my friends wedding day. She is in a rough spot because her fi knows along with his family what a nightmare they have been to the bride. The father of the groom has spoken to his daughter and daughter in-law and the madness has not ended. The family is legendary for holding grudges and not speaking to other members of the family for years. But my issue is that it is hard to stand by and see all of this happening. I have many ideas of what might work in this situation...but I just don't know what to do? I can not stand by and not act on my friends behalf. I see her in pain, I see her day being assaulted on all fronts. I see her responding appropriately and with dignity in all situations. But how can I help her? What would you do? Her wedding day is coming up in a couple of weeks and time is of the essence. FYI - Kicking them out of the party is not an option, I've asked consistently for months now.
Thanks for your welcome comments...in advance of you comments.