Photographer

BizWiz4

Does anyone have a list of pictures they want for their photographer they'd be willing to share?

TIA

StephBeanWed61502

http://bit.ly/TXdXb4

SmallenForever

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[QUOTE]<a href="http://bit.ly/TXdXb4" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/TXdXb4</a>
Posted by StephBeanWed61502[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>That's a little mean. </div><div>
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StephBeanWed61502

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Photographer : That's a little mean. 
Posted by SmallenForever[/QUOTE]



Thanks for letting me know. I had no idea.

thejucheidea

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[QUOTE]<a href="http://bit.ly/TXdXb4" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/TXdXb4</a>
Posted by StephBeanWed61502[/QUOTE]

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loca4pook

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[QUOTE]<a href="http://bit.ly/TXdXb4" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/TXdXb4</a>
Posted by StephBeanWed61502[/QUOTE]


Why can't brides just place nice here? Some people just feel the need to rip people to shreds unncessarily on the Knot. I just don't get it.

People come here for support. Weddings are hard enough without other brides going out of there way to be rude

BizWiz4

I've seen some great lists on Google- thanks.

I just know with multiple families, especially those with divided families, it can get tough to include everyone.

StephBeanWed61502

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Photographer : Why can't brides just place nice here? Some people just feel the need to rip people to shreds unncessarily on the Knot. I just don't get it. People come here for support. Weddings are hard enough without other brides going out of there way to be rude
Posted by loca4pook[/QUOTE]



OP asked a broad, general question, so I gave her a broad, general answer. If OP had a specific question that can't easily be solved by Google, she should've asked THAT question instead of expecting random strangers on the Internet to read her mind and magically predict what information she needs.

StephBeanWed61502

And also, I would like to note I am the only person in this thread who gave OP the information she asked for. The rest of you were too busy wagging your fingers at me to actually help.

StephBeanWed61502

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Photographer: Says the chick who tells people their marriages are more likely to FAIL if they smash cake in each others faces. Just sayin... And by the way, if your wedding planning is that hard that it causes you to need emotional support from strangers, you're doing it wrong.
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<div>Stage, don't you understand?  It's a WEDDING.  It's THE MOST IMPORTANT DAY EVER IN OUR LIVES.  It's more serious than the invasion of Normandy, for crissakes!  How do you not understand how complicated it is to choose between blue and aqua napkins and whether to have square or round tables and whether to serve the beef wellington or the prime rib?!  THESE ARE HARD CHOICES!!!  </div>

BizWiz4

Truthfully no one gave me what was needed, as I asked if anyone had a list they'd share ; It was good for a laugh anyway. Sometimes it's nice to compare lists... My perfect Pinterest wedding is getting pretty long!

BizWiz4

Truthfully no one gave me what was needed, as I asked if anyone had a list they'd share ; It was good for a laugh anyway. Sometimes it's nice to compare lists... My perfect Pinterest wedding is getting pretty long!

StephBeanWed61502

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[QUOTE]<strong>Truthfully no one gave me what was needed</strong>, as I asked if anyone had a list they'd share ; It was good for a laugh anyway. Sometimes it's nice to compare lists... My perfect Pinterest wedding is getting pretty long!
Posted by BizWiz4[/QUOTE]

Ummm.... except for the part where I gave you every list on Google?  Is Google really that difficult for you to parse?

And I have no list to share, since I hired an amazing photographer who took care of this for us during our pre-wedding planning meeting.

ljsquintz

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Photographer : <strong>Why can't brides just place nice here? Some people just feel the need to rip people to shreds unncessarily on the Knot. I just don't get it. People come here for support.</strong> Weddings are hard enough without other brides going out of there way to be rude
Posted by loca4pook[/QUOTE]

AGREED.  Can't the girl just get a straight answer?  I didn't find wedding planning to be hard, but I understand why it is stressful for some people.  It's not necessarily about selecting a napkin color, but there are other issues to take into account (family conflicts, budget, etc).  If you don't have something that is actually helpful or supportive to contribute, why bother posting?

OP - I don't have a list because our photographer actually preferred to work without a list. She said it's because some people get so specific with their lists and it gets to be too much.  However, she did ask for our family structure and who should be in photos (ie that my sister is married and her husband should be included in family photos).  We also let her know what we wanted group photos with everyone at the wedding that went to our respective alma maters. I'm a list maker though, so I think it makes sense to make a list and think through the photos you want - you won't be thinking about the list the day of so it's helpful for the photographer to be able to manage that for you.

loca4pook

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Photographer : AGREED.  Can't the girl just get a straight answer?  I didn't find wedding planning to be hard, but I understand why it is stressful for some people.  It's not necessarily about selecting a napkin color, but there are other issues to take into account (family conflicts, budget, etc).  If you don't have something that is actually helpful or supportive to contribute, why bother posting? OP - I don't have a list because our photographer actually preferred to work without a list. She said it's because some people get so specific with their lists and it gets to be too much.  However, she did ask for our family structure and who should be in photos (ie that my sister is married and her husband should be included in family photos).  We also let her know what we wanted group photos with everyone at the wedding that went to our respective alma maters. I'm a list maker though, so I think it makes sense to make a list and think through the photos you want - you won't be thinking about the list the day of so it's helpful for the photographer to be able to manage that for you.
Posted by ljsquintz[/QUOTE]

THANK YOU. Some regulars on here are more proud of themselves when they are nasty, then when being nice and helpful to new brides struggling to get info. I just don't get it. People come here to get support and answers, not nastiness and discouraging statments all the time
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BizWiz4

I've looked on google... And realistically, couldn't that be the answer for everything asked here? Then we'd all have no way to procrastinate.

BizWiz4

Thanks! I'm pretty confident we don't NEED one but I thought I'd have a list just in case. I'd hate to get through the day and then realize I have no pictures of someone/thing!