Invite Advice

sodell23

I have already sent my invites out last week.  However, one of my bridesmaids has in laws with a beach house and let all of us girls stay there during our bachelorette weekend....free of charge.  I bought them a gift and a card as a thank you and all of us girls did pitch in some money to buy them a gift card to a local restaurant.  However, should I send them an invite to the wedding?   I am friends with their son and do know this couple fairly well.  But I haven't invited all of my friends parents.  Is the thank you gift enough or would it be rude not to include them on the invite list? 

danieliza1127

The thank you gift was fine, you don't have to send them an invitation unless you actually want them to come to your wedding.

rbtrumpet

if you want them there, then invite them.

I'm surprised at the people who have RSVP'd "yes" - we invite FI's roommate's parents because FI knows them pretty well, and we stayed w/ them once when we were traveling.

I NEVER expected them to come, esp. since it's in a different state from them - just thought it would be a nice thing.  Guess who's coming!  (note: I think it's awesome they are coming, I'm just surprised they would want to say yes! - I've only met them once, FI knows them better)

They are the only "friend's parents" we are inviting.