My FH's aunt is being (in my opinino) very childish. About 6 months ago in the midst of planning, my MIL had told her that the wedding would be formal. She got offended because "we were telling her what to wear". It's not like I went to the store and picked out her outfit because she's a grown adult and can make her own decisions but she is shutting out her own nephews wedding because she "doesn't like being told what to wear". She's been telling my MIL (her sister) that she's probably not coming out of principle and being stubborn.
Well, I called her yesterday because it's getting down to the wire and I need to get a head count for the caterer. I left a voicemail that said to give me a call back and I don't antisipate her returning my call. I know that if she doesn't call back, that's automaticely a no however, she is the type of person to just show up. I'm trying not to stress about it but she is being extremely rude.
I thought about calling her next week and if I get her voicemail I will explain to her that I need to know if she is coming with her son and H. I would hope that she will call me back but I don't know. If she doesn't, then she will be a no. However, like I said, she's the type to just show up.
Is there, if anything, I can do about this?
