Most of my extended family (Aunts-Uncles-cousins) live out of state. I want to invite them to my wedding, but honestly there are people I am closer to that I would rather invite. My cousin had a wedding in the summer and all of my extended family attended (they only had to travel 2-3 hours for his wedding and for my wedding they would have to travel 15 hours). What should I do? I know its wrong, but I kind of want to be passive aggressive and have a Friday wedding so it makes it difficult for out of town guests. I know this sounds horrible, but I just have such a dilemma with this situation.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
P.S. I'm sure I'm making a mountain our of a mole hill, because even if I invite everyone and have a "traditional" Saturday evening wedding I bet only 1/4 of them will attend.