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Sad, need hugs, pet related

If you're my friend on FB you might have seen this, but we got bad news about our cat, Nimbus, today. He's been having some problems breathing heavily over the last few months. About a month ago, the vet drained some fluid out of his chest that was pushing on his lungs. We had to take him in again today for the same thing (he was actually breathing through his mouth over the weekend after running around because of the fluid pushing on his lungs). Well, they drained his chest again, and did an ultra sound, and discovered he has advanced heart disease. His prognosis is between 2 weeks and 3 months.

I knew we'd probably only have a year left with him, max. I've never met a cat with more health problems - recurring herpes infections in his right eye, for example. For those who were here last summer, you might remember I was afraid we were going to lose him - he had liver failure and we had to feed him through a feeding tube for 5 weeks. He lost 3 pounds off his 10 pound frame. But he pulled through. He's doing okay now and he seems to be perkier since he had the fluid drained today. He's on a medication and we'll get his chest drained again if he needs it and if the vet thinks it's feasible.

I adopted him when I was 22 (7 years ago in July) when he was 7. His old owner had to rehome him because her baby was allergic. He's a dark gray Norwegian forest cat and he's my baby. He was the first pet I got on my own. Of course I moved around a lot when I was younger, and occassionally had roommates with other cats, but Nimbus has always loved other cats, especially kittens. I hope he thinks he's had a good life. I'm just going to miss him so much. Cry
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  • I'm so sorry Mery, that sucks. Definitely sending hugs your way.
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  • Not a great pic, but here's a cute recent pic of Nimbus (dark gray in the middle) with his buddies, Delilah, the pillow pet, and Samson:




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  • And here's Nimbus on the right trying to share a sunbeam with Sam:




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  • So sorry to hear about your kitty. He sounds like a very lucky boy to have such a loving owner caring for him. I hope you're able to enjoy the time you have with him. He sounds like a tough little guy.
  • I'm so sorry, Mery. *Hugs* to you and T&P your way.
  • Im sorry mery






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  • Oh, Mery.  Hugs to you and Nimbus.  :(
  • I'm tearing up right now and FI just asked if I needed a hug. I definitely have a soft spot for cats and I can't imagine how I would feel if either one of my cats was sick like that. I'm sorry mery :[
  • I am so, so sorry. 

    My thoughts and prayers are with you.  

    How terrible. 
  • I'm so sorry to hear about this! Hugs!
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  • I'm sorry :(  It's so terribly heartbreaking when our pets get sick.  You sound like a loving pet-mom, and he's lucky to have had you when he was sick before and lucky to have you by him now (though I know that doesn't necessarily make it easier).
  • I'm sorry Mery.  I just went through this last year, so I know where you're at right now.  Hugs to you, and scratchies to Nimbus.
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  • Thanks so much guys. I'm tearing up every time I write about this or tell someone. I called my mom earlier and was lamenting that our pets don't live as long as humans. :-(

    I'm from a family of animal lovers, so we had lots of pets when I was a kid. So I've been through having to put them down before, and my family having to make decisions about what was best for our pets. When I got Nimbus I knew I'd have to make that decision someday. And almost losing him last year made me really grateful for every day since I've had with him, but also aware that sooner rather than later he'd be leaving me.

    The persians love him and they'll miss him a lot, which will also be really sad.
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  • So sorry for what you're going thru :'( My heart goes out to you and Nimbus. I can tell how dearly you love him and I'm sure he's had an amazing life.

  • I'm really sorry sweetie.  ((hugs))
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    [QUOTE]Thanks so much guys. I'm tearing up every time I write about this or tell someone. I called my mom earlier and was lamenting that our pets don't live as long as humans. :-( Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

    I look at my Max and Bear and think this all the time.  It doesn't seem fair that they have to leave us so soon.  I guess all we can do is nuzzle them a little closer, give them some extra scratchies and just love them like crazy while we have them.  *hug*
  • Aww Mery I'm so sorry to hear that.  Losing a pet is so difficult.  Enjoy all the time you do have left with him, and spoil him lots!
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  • I'm sorry hon, that's rough.  *hugs*
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  • hugs Mery! that is so tough
  • I'm sorry :( ::hugs::

    As long as he's comfortable, cats can always defy the odds. My brothers cat was given until Christmas to live and he's still here kickin and being his bad ol' self.

    Nimbus knows he's had a good life and a good mommy these last 7 years. He's very grateful for that.
  • Aww, I'm sorry Mery.  Try to enjoy the time that you have left with him, and make him as comfortable as possible.
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  • Aw, Mery, I'm so sorry to read that.
  • So sorry Mery, sending lots of love to you and Nimbus. I know how hard that is <3
  • I'm sorry!

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  • Cry Nooo, Nimbus. I'm so very sorry to hear about this. I will keep him in my thoughts.



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  • I'm so sorry. I'm very sad for you right now. My pets are my family, and I'm sure this is devastating for you and your family. 
    *major hugs* please take care of yourself xo
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  • I'm sorry. :(
    I'm sure he knows how much you love him.

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  • I'm really sorry to hear about your kitty, Mery. I lost my baby Nomad at age 3 to cancer two years ago, and it still breaks my heart to think about it. Like you, we had a few weeks with him, knowing his prognosis, before the end. Take lots of videos and pictures, and spend time doing nice things together and enjoying the days you have left with him.
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    [QUOTE]Thanks so much guys. I'm tearing up every time I write about this or tell someone. I called my mom earlier and was lamenting that our pets don't live as long as humans. :-( Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

    I just had a talk about this with FI a few nights ago. I am going to be devestated when somehting happens to my dogs. It was hard enough with mom's dog a couple weeks ago. I'm so sorry you are going through this. T & P's for you. *Hugs*
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