GBCK'd

Stackeye210

Capri - bbyckes.  Really?  Lame. 

Someone let me know if I'm wrong - but her post count is 0 and you can't search for her bio at the bottom of the page. 

FutureMrsTR

Really?  That genuinely surprises me.  She definitely said some really awful things that I don't think anyone was just going to forget about, but she didn't seem the type.

Mrs_AF

She pissed off quite a few people in the FFF on Friday. I'm really not surprised. If I were her I would lay low too.

opalsky007

Wow. I never thought she'd actually do it. She seemed like one of those people who can't walk away without the last word.

kate51485

I think there's a glitch going on because if I click on your bio it says 0 posts too, Stack.

That said, she hasn't been back since FFF and I can't say I'm disappointed.

september's bride

Weird. Although, an impulse-GBCK wouldn't surprise me; she did seem a little unhinged at the end there.

laurenclaire1386

weird. But I didn't think you could delete your account? Or alter your post count? I mean, she hasn't been around, but I didn't know you could make your profile unsearchable or change your post count to zero.

salt78

*waves*

Don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya! 

Good riddance.

Piper_62

Stackeye210

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[QUOTE]*waves* Don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya!  Good riddance.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

LOL. 

It just seems like she has gotten that same response Friday as she has a million other times.  Why this time?  You know?

nda_roxybabe

Yea, the post count thing is wonky. I think she will be back.

Stackeye210

But you can't search for her either........that's what is weird.  I was only looking because it's so boring today. 

Mrs_AF

Friday went a little further than here usual antics, I'm afraid. Saying "pics or it didn't happen" to P2 about her wedding was just way too much.

mandysmear

I'm sure she'll be back.  Someone like that doesn't just leave. 

Although I thought the same about mrsE.  I'm sure she lurks though.

nda_roxybabe

I definitely think E lurks.

kikibaby

Isn't she friends with a lot of people on FB?

danieliza1127

The bio link thing is just glitchy today.  If you find a post from her and click the magnifying glass, you can still see her previous posts.  I checked it earlier today and it shows that she hasn't posted since the FFF thread.  I'm sure she's just laying low waiting for it to blow over.  I seriously doubt she would GBCK.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

She's a mod. On Customs and Traditions and maybe another board (her local?) so I don't think she can just up and leave.

And she hasn't been on or updated FB recently.

AmoroAgain

All I can say is, thank god.  I think she was completely unhinged and lied about soooo much crap.  There's no way in hell that woman is a lawyer, or has gone to law school. No. Way.  If she did, it had to have been Idiot's College of Law because I cannot believe she would have passed the LSAT with a decent score or even made it through law school. uh uh.

danieliza1127

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[QUOTE]She's a mod. On Customs and Traditions and maybe another board (her local?) so I don't think she can just up and leave.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

Well she CAN if she notified Knot Annie.  It's not like once you're a Mod, you can never leave the Knot.  ;)

Stacks, this time was different because her comment to Pumpkin crossed the line.  Everyone knows what P2 and her H have been dealing with and Capri just lashed out and it was wrong.  It was different than her typical attitude that people complain about.

eastunder1

I wouldn't be sad in the least.  She's annoying and the P2 thing was just ridiculous.  I will probably have forgotten she ever existed two weeks from now. 

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: GBCK'd : Well she CAN if she notified Knot Annie.  It's not like once you're a Mod, you can never leave the Knot.  ;)
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

Lol, yeah, but I mean... it would be a process. If she just disappeared that wouldn't be okay with the Knot Gods, I assume!

danieliza1127

Didn't some knotties just GTG with her this past weekend?  After the FFF thread?  Sarabellum I think, and I don't know who else.  I wonder how that went and if they talked about it.

danieliza1127

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: GBCK'd : Lol, yeah, but I mean... it would be a process. If she just disappeared that wouldn't be okay with the Knot Gods, I assume!
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

I would assume that if she GBCK, she would let Annie know.  That doesn't mean that WE would know.

Stackeye210

Ok - Dani - I see how to search for her now.  Way to make things difficult KNOT. 

And yes, I usually turn the other way when she says stupid stuff, but I even told her she was messed up for what she said.  When she said she was leaving the FFF though she seemed like she really hadn't put two and two together about why pictures weren't posted and felt dumb about saying that.  Hopefully if she comes back she calms it down a notch.  The past few months she has gotten bolder, and bolder with her snark and I was finding it hard to keep the love. 

kate51485

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[QUOTE]Didn't some knotties just GTG with her this past weekend?  After the FFF thread?  Sarabellum I think, and I don't know who else.  I wonder how that went and if they talked about it.
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

Yeah, sarabellam said she had drinks or whatever with her, but I don't know if anyone else went.  I personally would not have associated with her after how she behaved.

Nebb

If you go back to page 6 her GTG thread is still there and so is she, but she hasnt posted since FFF.

I think the difference is that instead of a few select people hating on her in FFF, EVERYONE slammed her for saying stupid stuff.

I dunno but in the past few months shes kind of gone off the rails, I know she was struggling with depression or something like that but she just got wonky and seemed like she was trying way too hard.

AmoroAgain

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: GBCK'd : Stacks, this time was different because her comment to Pumpkin crossed the line.  Everyone knows what P2 and her H have been dealing with and Capri just lashed out and it was wrong.  It was different than her typical attitude that people complain about.
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

Seriously. We all know P2's blunt, I'm blunt, but that was just downright mean and dirty. My biggest problem with Capri has always been her lack of common sense- she just doesn't have any.

eastunder1

I don't view her so much as being "bold" and "snarky" so much as just an moron who tries too hard.   Maybe thats just me. 

ac_in_dc

I've actually been thinking about bbycakes and the stuff that went down with her in the FFF last week. Before that I never really had a problem with her; I liked her, actually. But obviously in FFF she was completely wrong. Like I said Fri, she was either being totally clueless or very, very bitchy.

But I don't think that one statement like that means you have to leave forever. Like if I did something really bitchy or dumb like that and people started freaking out, I'd probably respond by realizing the error of my ways, and apologizing, both to the board as a whole and to P2 (or whoever it was)  individually, via PM. And I'd just suck it up and realize folks would give me shiit for it for a while, but if I demonstrated that I was an OK person, that folks would eventually forgive and overlook the fact that I'd screwed up.

But Capri just seems like she didn't get it, even after folks started flaming the shiit out of her. I guess she's just really stubborn or something.

Nebb

I dont think she actually apologized though, she just said she was going to take a step back from FFF and stop posting.