So, I just found out by searching for ideas for outdoor catholic brides that the marriage is not recognized by the church unless done in a church. Yes, I'm ignorant and dense for not knowing this. I just spoke to FI about it and we'll get married in the eyes of god after our legal wedding (it won't be a huge thing just informal, parents and such so we're married within the church). BTW WAY TOO LATE TO CHANGE NOW.
Anyway, my real question was how to include the catholic ceremony in our wedding? All I can find are things from hispanic heritage that leave flowers on marys altar etc... I'm looking for readings and such. Anyone have any ideas, suggestions, experiences?