There's a few people I know will not be able to come to our wedding since it's the weekend before the 4th of July and they'll be leaving for vacation that day. And one couple is actually in their family member's wedding in another state. Both sets of people are very important to me (aunt/cousins- going on the trip, very good friends- in the other wedding). Do I still send them an STD and invitation knowing that they won't be able to come? I don't want them to feel bad that they have to respond no and they know I know they can't come but I also feel like it boils down to the old adage "it never hurts to ask".Also, the very good friends have been involved with helping come up with ideas and have been completelty interested in all of my DIY projects. She knows the time I've put into the STD's and invites. I don't know what to do...
Re: STD/Invite Question
[QUOTE]There's a few people I know will not be able to come to our wedding since it's the weekend before the 4th of July and they'll be leaving for vacation that day. And one couple is actually in their family member's wedding in another state. Both sets of people are very important to me (aunt/cousins- going on the trip, very good friends- in the other wedding). Do I still send them an STD and invitation knowing that they won't be able to come? I don't want them to feel bad that they have to respond no and they know I know they can't come but I also feel like it boils down to the old adage "it never hurts to ask".Also, the very good friends have been involved with helping come up with ideas and have been completelty interested in all of my DIY projects. She knows the time I've put into the STD's and invites. I don't know what to do...
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</div><div>Send them one just so they know they are invited if they can come, so they know you are thinking about them.
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