For backround my FI grew up with his father, and his mother has been the call on your birthday once a year type. She lives about 2000 miles away and FI hasn't seen her in probably 5+ years. We discussed it and he decided to invite her to the wedding since it is his mother.
Now to the predicament... We just met with our florist and they were asking about corsages for MOB and MOG. I asked FI if we should do one for his mother and he said "No, she got invited thats good enough." I was talking about it with my mom and she said I should definitely do something to honor his mother.
So, should I do the typical things that you do for his mother or no? I don't want to slight her, but I don't want to go against my FI wishes. They have had a rocky relationship to say the least, and he feels that her being invited is honor enough. TIA!