I'm about to rip my hair out, and wanted to see what you ladies thought about this circumstance and the correct thing to do. I'll try to keep this as short as possible.
I live in AZ, but we're getting married in VA, where my father lives. We wanted a good friend of ours to marry us, and he lives in OH.
After the go around from a million different people at the Court of Clerks in the county we're getting married in I have been told that our friend is not allowed to marry us because he is not a minister with a "real" church (ULC is not recognized). There is a civil servant option, but you have to reside in that county, which he does not. I really do not want to go with a random person, espcially now that we've planned everything out with our friend.
I was told that my only option if I want my friend to perform the ceremony is to get legally married either before or after with a legal representative of the state have the ceremony seperatly, but it won't be a marriage. Isn't this basically lying to our guests?
So it's either that, or get some random person that we don't know. Thoughts?
TIA
June 2013 - January Sig Challenge - Honeymoon Destination - Prince Edward Island