My wedding is October 16th, 2010 yes a couple of week. Well my brother and his brother decide that since my fi and I just built a home, that they should not have to stay in a hotel but with us. Number one it's our wedding weekend, two we only have a living room furniture and master beadroom. They offered to bring a air mattress. We said No!!! it's our wedding/honey moon weekend.
We have sixteen rooms booked for that weekend however they feel that since they are driving over 15 hundred miles and I qoute "You have that big house why should we stat in a hotel. I don't understand this. I never say this comming.
I am hurt that they would do this. My brother is also a groomsmen. I feel that our relationship will be damage over this. They feel that we are not understanding the cost factor. We travel to their wedding two years ago and spent over two thousdand dollars and stayed in a hotel at $160.00 per night times 4. Their hotel cost is $64.00 times 3nights, his tux is free. But he is telling everyone we are treating them like they are nt welcome.
I love my brother but this is wrong.... At this point i wish that I had never invited them....... I am the one who is hurt...... I am not having people sleeping on my floor
or staying with us on my wedding night...... They are wrong for expecting us to
put them up for the weekend.
I needed to vent.