One of our friends whom we are inviting with her cohabitant boyfriend is in her late 30's and never married. On one hand she's a modern career woman and I would lean towards addressing her invitation to "Ms. Jane Doe and Mr. John Smith." But on the other hand she is a traditional Southern girl and a little self conscious of her age so I would lean towards addressing her invitation to "Miss Jane Doe and Mr. John Smith." Maybe it wouldn't really be stupid, but I would feel like an idiot asking her what she would prefer. What do you think?
Whoever said it was supposed to be happily ever after is a big fat liar.