parents bringing 'dates'

StephBeanWed61502

In Response to Re:parents bringing 'dates':[QUOTE]In Response to Re: parents bringing 'dates':In Response to Re: parents bringing 'dates' : Dude. nbsp;Your dad and his mistress are, like, the least of your problems if this is true.nbsp; Wow.nbsp;Posted by NOLAbridealmostDid you read her thread on Christian Weddings?nbsp;ITA with you. She's got much bigger fish to fry. Posted by crash2729[/QUOTE]

Crash, her FI totally promised he'd stop using his secret cell phone to tell other women he's single. And its not like he met them in person, he just made some plans to meet them as an "ego boost." So, it's not like he was really cheating. I am sure their relationship will be totally improved by marriage.

And hey, we already know she has tons of practice misplacing the blame for an adulterous relationship on the single woman involved instead of the married man, so she's totally prepared for marriage to a guy like this.

crash2729

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_parents-bringing-dates?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ab6654d0-02af-4346-b3b7-585dba35713ePost:07459dce-1a28-45d6-8629-9ea7f4d7edef">Re:parents bringing 'dates'</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:parents bringing 'dates': Crash, her FI totally promised he'd stop using his secret cell phone to tell other women he's single. And its not like he met them in person, he just made some plans to meet them as an "ego boost." So, it's not like he was really cheating. I am sure their relationship will be totally improved by marriage. <strong>And hey, we already know she has tons of practice misplacing the blame for an adulterous relationship on the single woman involved instead of the married man, so she's totally prepared for marriage to a guy like this.</strong>
Posted by StephBeanWed61502[/QUOTE]
Hey,I'm surprised she didn't try to blame the girls texting HIM for trying to meet. :D

zitiqueen

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_parents-bringing-dates?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ab6654d0-02af-4346-b3b7-585dba35713ePost:79fc8214-f304-4fa6-b97e-1c54523667f0">Re: parents bringing 'dates'</a>:
[QUOTE]I do not think that resenting the affair partner more than the parent is necessarily a sexist position.  Adult children might feel the same as regards step dad and mom, if mom were cheater.   IMHO, no one has the right to be foregiven, the child can forgive whomever they want. 
Posted by NYUgirl100[/QUOTE]

But it's easier to forgive those who give you money, right?

peekaboo2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_parents-bringing-dates?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ab6654d0-02af-4346-b3b7-585dba35713ePost:04724785-8803-4f9e-937f-c6a2d22f3296">Re: parents bringing 'dates'</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: parents bringing 'dates' : But it's easier to forgive those who give you money, right?
Posted by zitiqueen[/QUOTE]

<div>As long as you can push the guilt off onto someone else!</div>

PhoneCardLady

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_parents-bringing-dates?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ab6654d0-02af-4346-b3b7-585dba35713ePost:3b96505b-64da-4173-bff7-ca11d812309c">Re:parents bringing 'dates'</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:parents bringing 'dates': Her parents are still married to each other, so she isn't breaking up a social unit by not inviting her father's mistress. My dad's whore was not invited to my or my brother's wedding. Now that my parents' divorce is final, we do include each of their SOs in social situations.
Posted by marriedfilingjointly[/QUOTE]

I would have to agree with this.