We are planning a St. Patrick's Day wedding Mar 15, 2014 as he has Irish heritage and I am a first generation Irish Canadian. After the wedding, we plan on having our honeymoon in Ireland.
My question is, my Dad is one of 8 and the only one that lives in Canada, I am trying to keep my full wedding guest list under 120. Would it be acceptable to send a note to my overseas saying something to the effect of "don't come to us, we're coming to you!". The way I see it, there is major cost savings for everyone, but I don't want to hurt any feelings.
Thoughts?