Hi everyone!
So I may have a sticky situation on my hands. I just need some advice on how to handle this. This weekend, my fiance, parents, and I met my aunt to listen to a potential wedding band. So while we were talking about my wedding she mentioned that she has two years to find a date, since my wedding is two years from now. My aunt is twice-divorced and has been seeing a married guy for YEARS. Now, I understand that since they are in a relationship, he would get an invite too. I met him once and he's a nice guy, even though he's married and all, I don't really have a problem inviting him since not a lot of people know about the situation. So I asked her what happened to her boyfriend and she said that since he's married she doesn't feel comfortable inviting him nor would he be comfortable at a wedding. So now do I give her a plus one since she outright said she's not inviting her boyfriend? Please also note that not everyone invited is getting a plus one, just those that are in serious relationships. I am not able to afford to give dates to everyone invited since we are paying for the reception ourselves. Since, clearly she's not bringing the guy she's in a relationship with do I give her a plus one? I know I still have time to think about this but it's kind of bugging me. Thanks in advance for all of your feedback!