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Um, weird.

So, the girl who gave me the invite to her church just called my cell phone.

I know, I know.  I usually NEVER give out my cell phone number to kids, but I had to keep in touch with her step father one day since he was chaperoning at an event she was auditioning for and gave him my #.  Guess he gave it to her.

Let's see what the VM says...
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Re: Um, weird.

  • That is kinda creepy. I know shes a nice girl and all but thats a bit much. I really loved my art teacher in highschool but I never called her or asked her to do stuff.
  • Ok now I'm fully creeped out by her. That seems to be overstepping teacher/student boundaries a bit.
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  • Dun dun DUNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!
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  • VM: "I'm hiding in the bushes outside your house..."
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  • Did you ever reveal her age? MS?
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  • ha I hope she's not like the pepper girl on Glee! ;)
  • She's calling to ask you what a vagina is.
  • That doesn't seem appropriate.  What did you say to her?
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  • This is your out sucrets, take it!
    Take her aside and let her know that although her intentions were good, its not appropriate for you to be doing that kind of thing. It certainly wouldnt if you were male and she was female, vice versa.
  • I think it's time for a "this is not appropriate" chat.
  • What's the backstory on this? Did I miss something?
  • She's in MS.

    Okay, so I just checked my FB and she sent me this message:

    Hi Mrs.J. I'm sorry I didn't really stick around after I handed you that invitation. The truth is. I think you forgot to put me as one of your students cause your status keeps showing up on my home page. And I saw one of your statuses with the d word in it and I got really upset. I mean I understand a lot of grown ups do and I've screwed up with cussing a lot. But I kinda felt a little messed up when I saw it. I know I should've told you the moment I saw it but I was scared you'd get mad at me. I had all my friends at church sign that note in hopes that you would come. I'm really sorry I didn't tell you earlier. And it's none of my business. But yeah that kinda shocked and for some reason it hurt when I saw that status. I finally got the guts to tell you but I didn't have the courage to tell you at school today. I got too scared. Please forgive me for not telling you earlier. My youth group and I are praying for you.

    Love, Your Student,
    *******************************
    I'm combing through my FB and can't find anything offensive (except for the thing about drinking that I wrote today, after she gave me the note)...can anyone find what she's talking about?

    Douche?  Diick?  Damn?

    Ahhhhhh, I have no idea!

    And, btw, ALL my other kids can't see anything on my FB...I can't believe I messed this up, but my FB is pretty tame, right?
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  • Oh my gosh, it may be time for an unfriending.  Wow, her youth group is praying for you.  Time to cut it off.  This is too much.
  • OMFG they are PRAYING for you?

    I'm sorry and no offense anyone's beliefs here, but this is a perfect example of why I just can't handle organized religion.
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  • So shes trying to "save" you???
  • sent you an FB invite so i can tell you.

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  • I saw Dad and Dunkin Donuts. Other than that, I couldn't find another d word. I did see ass, though.
  • I'm going to cuss all over your wall in a minute. xoxo

    (j/k)
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  • I see the word "ass" in one of your statuses....
  • Okay, yeah the praying for you part crossed the line. For what!?
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  • Damnit...  I'm praying for you too Sucrets.

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  • You said "asss" on November 12th but thats all I can find on the first page. 
  • DUNKIN DONUTS! That must be it. You are going straight to hell now.
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  • Dude. I don't know the best way to handle it, but she's off her rocker.  It's one thing to look up to a teacher, it's another to idolize one so much that you pray constantly for their soul to be encased in your own neurotic religion.
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  • Sucrets, my god requires a sacrifice and a dance with the devil in the pale moon light.

    I'll get right on that for you.
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  • Yeah, I'm now going back past my bday...I saw ass but nothing else.  I even saw a 'stfu'  at someone, but that's not a D word.

    I'm mad at myself for not putting her on the Limited Profile list.  Dammit!  (a d word?)  A lot of my kids friend me, but I'm always really good about putting them on the list.

    Oh, and the praying for you thing is super common down here.  I've had my 4 year olds tell me that they were praying for me when I was out sick and missed music class one day.  It starts early.
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  • Cree.  Pee.

    Yeah, I would change her FB settings ASAP and tell her you're an adult and to butt out.  But nicer.
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  • I went back to August (STFU I'm bored), and all I found was one "ass" and one instance of using the Lord's name in vain ;)
  • I saw "ass" too, but your statuses are actually very tame.

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