My husband and i got married on December 6th in a quick little courthouse ceremony. Our family and friends all know we are married, and we caught a lot of crap from them for not "inviting" them to share the day with us. Because of this, and the fact that i'd like to have a "Wedding" we are currently planning a vow renewal ceremony. I need to know what is proper etiquette for such an occasion. I really want a full blown event with attendants and all, but i can settle for less as long as I get to have a special day with our friends and families.