Ok, here's the deal: I am living with two girls who I have known since high school. One is a good friend, and I have no hesitation whatsoever inviting her to the wedding, but one flat out does not like me. She gets mad and snaps at me when I use her silverware, when I leave dirty dishes for more than an hour, when the trash doesn't get emptied right away, when my fiancee comes over to hang out... I had no idea she was so rude before we moved in together! I don't want her to come to the wedding, and we will not be living together anymore by the time my fiancee and I are married; however, we will be living together when I am planning, mailing invitations, etc. Is it rude to slip an invitation in my "nice roommate's" room and leave the "mean roommate" out? (To be fair, she snubbed me at Christmas by getting my "nice roommate" a present and not getting one for me. I know that sounds petty, but it's so rude!)
I hope to never see her again after I move out, but I don't want to be a horrible person while we are still living together!