On the day of the wedding, the guys in our wedding party are going to play golf in the morning, while the girls are at the spa. My fiance's parents "share" a lot of information that is not really meant for the WHOLE family with the WHOLE family. He has 6 brothers and sisters. One of his brothers is in the wedding party and his dad is marrying us. The other brother, he is not nearly as close to and we were not including him in the golfing trip. The brother in law posts on my FB page that he is wanting the details so he can get off work in time to participate! Wait, what?!?!? How did this happen and how do we deal with it?!?!? We are treating the 4 groomsmen and our dads to the round of golf...that's 7 people + cart fees. What's the "proper" way to say "You're not invited!"