My fiance was married before and had a horrible wedding due to family members (divorced mother and father) not being able to get along. I have a very small (my mother, my sister, and myself) so we decided to go out of town to get married with about 10 people. We do have a lot of friends and extended family. What is the ettiquette for having a bridal shower and registry? Oh I forgot to add we will be having a reception for all friends and family a couple months later.