I was never into weddings or big parties. My fiance is very easy going, but also very family oriented. For me, there are family issues for both sides of the family, but initially I agreed to have an intimate wedding (about 20 ppl) and then do a limo ride with our family instead of a reception.
After some recent communication with both moms I remembered why I didn't want to have a wedding. I personally don't want my wedding memories to be of stress and drama. This is an important day that is about me and my fiance committing our lives to each other.
I suggested to my fiance that we have a destination wedding with just us and then we could do a vow renewal ceremony another time so that he still gets that experience. Apparently, he won't be happy marrying me if his family isn't there...
I'm not sure how we could/should come to a compromise and decision for this.